Unlike other sites, I have found that the members on this site usually are more able to be themselves. I have experienced it all here - made lifelong friendships, experienced some wonderful casual hookups and then just over 3 years ago met the man I still love to this day - and always will. We lost contact without warning because of some problems he had for a year and it was the friends and later on some casual hookups again, that enabled me to cope with having "lost" him. But now he's back. Yippee!!!!

This site allows us to be ourselves - whatever it is that we choose to be and as long as we respect our own values and those of the contacts we make, our lives becomes so much more happier and fulfilled. Thanks GMM for encouraging this.